The question, “My dearest Swamiji, ‘Bliss is cosmos’ is becoming profound reality within just 4 days of the IA program completion. How can we connect Swamiji to everyone so that they can taste the nectar specially our near and dear ones– especially our near and dear ones or friends who have language limitations or mind-set fixed due to their religious beliefs?
Two thing. First, you imbibe this concept / this truths as a experience so deeply, when you go and start living, constantly approach your near and dear ones, every human being with this one attitude of ‘how can I contribute to his life and make a difference?’ Please understand, recently I have taken a vow. Whoever comes in my breathing space I will give something to them. May be a healing or a boon, atleast a candy. I can see so clearly, please understand, this has opened a new dimension even in me. I have the habit of always—whoever asks something, prays for something, blessing or giving them the boon. That is one thing. Now, I made it like a rule. Anybody who comes in my breathing space I will give them something; atleast a blessing from the heart, ‘let you be blissful’. My presence is always blessing, all those things are one side-it is a mystical side. Even in the practical side, when I decided, I keep this as a vow, I tell you—you also keep this as a vow—so much opens up inside you.
When you approach your near and dear ones or your family, friends, people, anybody, you don’t even need your near and dear ones practice your love and compassion.
Go and stand outside the mall- every human being is your near and dear one only. Every human being walks in, walks out. Stand with the tremendous meditative mood, how can I contribute to his life and make a difference. What is the best thing which made difference in my life? – feeling connection with my Master or meditation, Inner Awakening. You may have different words. But all these different words are like different doors of this Chit Sabha. Whichever door you enter you will reach me only. One door is Inner Awakening, one door is Nithya Yoga, one door is Nithya Kriya, one door is feeling connection. So many different doors. One door is energy darshan, one door is initiation. So many different doors. Whichever door you.. door has contributed most to your life share that.
Do not ever bother whether the other person is going to be convinced by you or not. Don’t be egoistic and greedy that you should convince all the 100% of the people to whom you talk. Don’t be greedy. Your job is to stand there with tremendous love and compassion feeling, ‘what can I contribute and make a difference.’ I tell you,if you are too much bothered about how many people are inspired or listening to your words, you become egocentric. But if you stand there, ‘how can I contribute and make a difference’ you become spiritual-centric.
Most of the time your near and dear ones, your husband, your wife or family resists me because you talk to them ego-centrically. It is more like a you convincing them about your rightness—I went to Swamiji, I did IA, I am right – that is not going to work. That is not going to work. Something has contributed in my life and made difference. How can I share that with him. Can I contribute some way to his life and make a difference in his life? The attitude from which words are coming out, the attitude from which the body language is expressing, attitude from which feeling is coming out is going to make a difference.
Understand, when you stand with the attitude, ‘how can I contribute and make a difference’, you have all the tools ready. You don’t even need anything. Just tell, watch the you tube satsangs. Over. Nothing more is required. That is more than enough. You know, our you tube satsangs are the longest number of minutes people stay in discourses in whole you tube. Because both side the amount of material presented is mind-boggling. But still, people spend maximum number of hours / minutes / time in the you tube satsang. Please understand, I have created enough tool, material. All you need to do is, have real concern for the other person. Sincerely, authentically if your concern is not authentic, if your feeling, ‘how can I contribute to this person and make a difference in his life’ if that is not authentic, you are not going to help the other person. Then, you are not going to help. Even if you make that person see my satsang, your contribution will not be there. You are not going to expand.
Understand, I know how to expand my Sangha, don’t bother about that. But by serving, by being part, you expand your inner space.
With authentic feeling, standing outside a mall or a shopping complex or a temple or a theatre, first establish yourself for 3 mins in that feeling through meditating. How can I contribute to this person’s life and make a difference. People who are coming in front of me, going, how can I contribute and make a difference. With the clear, honest attitude, I tell you, this process – standing in a public place and seeing the public, unknown people, with this one tremendous feeling, ‘how can I contribute and make a difference into this person’s life’ is more than the Vajrahrudaya technique; Buddha’s technique that inhaling all the negativities, and converting that into positive energy and releasing to the cosmos. It is a beautiful, powerful technique. Diamond-heart sutra. Buddha talks about it. Very powerful technique. I tell you, this is equivalent to that technique. Equivalent to the technique. It is the attitude with which you stand. If you stand there with right attitude, you inspire the other person, above all, you expand which is the main effect of your tapas. Umesh, approach your near and dear ones or friends or the common public with this one attitude, ‘how can I contribute and make a difference?’. That’s it. Nothing else.