Tagged Responsibility

The only way to develop your inner identity about you is integrity!

What is your reality?  Your perception about you, your perception about what you feel as you and what you project yourself to others and what others are expecting about you. When you practice authenticity naturally you have to develop what you feel as you continuously. How to develop?  The only way to develop your inner identity about…

Living the instructions and initiations without waiting for your logic to get convinced is Shaktinipatha!

To manifests Sadashiva’s creativity, bring Integrity. To manifest Sadashiva’s sustenance energy bring Authenticity. To manifest Sadashiva’s destruction energy bring Responsibility. To manifest Sadashiva’s delusion energy and handle it, bring Enriching in your life. To manifest Sadashiva’s liberation energy, liberating energy, bring Causing in your life. Then what will make you manifest the unmanifest, Avyakta of…

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Why do people break up, don’t live happily ?

Mohandas Pai: Swamiji, why is there conflict in families between 2 people. Between spouses, why do people break up, don’t live happily, how to handle conflict and what causes this conflict? Swamiji: Basically, you keep somebody as part of your cognition, but you are not ready to take the responsibility for how they expect you. See…

Consciousness can interfere with anything and directly change

Saparyaka Chukram Akayam Avranam Asnabeeram Suthamabhabaveedam Kavir Manishi Paribhuh Swayambhur Yatha Tatha YaTho Than Vyadadas Chashwateebya Samabhyaha It is Consciousness that is responsible for our nature for the space, for our responsibilities and our actions and the results there of. So surrendering to our consciousness, meditating on our consciousness can completely reprogram us. We can…

Your Ego is enough to Kill you !

First of all, understand, the space you have inside you is like an inner organ.  Just like your kidney, heart, intestine, your physical organs, the space you carry is an inner organ. I have seen in the villages, one man will do electricity, plumbing, construction; anything you ask, he will do it!  I have seen…

Life has no pleasures other than Enriching!

Questionnaire: ‘If Enriching happens by an incomplete person, it doesn’t really reach people. It might help the Enricher but the other person might be going away instead of coming. Should the Enricher be completely complete before enriching?’ Swamiji: “Completely completing” will happen ultimately only with enlightenment. So understand, Completion, Enriching, both are not supposed to be done…

Completion is not…

Completion is not apologizing. Completion is not complaining. Completion is not begging. Completion is not becoming weak. Completion is not tolerating atrocities others do. Completion is not putting up with all stupidity of others. Completion is not putting up with others’ powerlessness. Completion is not letting others do whatever the want. Completion is not being irresponsible. Completion is not withdrawing. Completion is not escaping. Completion is not missing the Life. Completion is you feeling powerful, friendly, fulfilling. Completion is feeling complete with the other person as per the other persons’ place and space. Completion is seeing reality in you and…

“Loneliness” and “Aloneness”

Just now I used both words in the same meaning. But in order to define both words deeply, in Sanskrit we have a word – “Kaivalya”; means, “aloneness”. “Loneliness” is, you want to have somebody to escape from you and your incompletions; that is “loneliness”. Even if you have the other person or not, you will be lonely. “Aloneness” is, you are so complete, so fulfilled, so powerful, you don’t need anybody to complete you, make you powerful, that is “aloneness”, whether you have the other person or not. Whether you have the other person or not, if you are…

People ask, ‘Commitment vs Responsibility in a relationship, Swamiji, please define?’

Please understand, if you constantly think from incompletion, powerlessness, and can constantly be thinking what all can go wrong, and trying to control only that, stop only that “what all can go wrong”, that is “Commitment”. “Responsibility” means, thinking from the powerful space “what all can go right”, and making that happen, working for that. “Responsibility” is working for what all can go right. “Commitment” is stopping, working to stop what all can go wrong. Commitment is “crisis management mood”, Responsibility is “creation mood”. In a relationship, “Responsibility” means, constantly raising it to the next, next, next levels of Completion;…

How can I trust people? What if they take advantage of me? How do I start trusting after I have been hurt by others?

First thing, as long as you have some business understanding bargain, do not call that as “trust”. If you have been hurt, it must be in bargains, never in trust. Trust is a pure powerfulness to experience about you, and the surety, certainty, guarantee you experience about others just by the way of Oneness, not by the way of their words or commitments, the way they talk to you; it is the way they make you feel about you and them. Understand, the way they carry their being into you and they carry you into them. “Trust” is surety given…

Whatever you maintain with people around you, you will be made to maintain that inside you. If I have to hold people through fear, I will be held by fear. It is the law of Life. With what you hold the people around you is your root pattern. Your root pattern is going to declare supremacy over you. Your responsibility is going to declare supremacy over root pattern. Each one is unique is Advaitha

Don’t try to stop the current of Ganga using a stick !

The non-dualistic space – please listen – whatever is happening in and around you, whether it makes you feel powerful or makes you feel powerless, know for sure it is you not just responsible! Please understand, responsibility is one of the strategizing out of non-dualism. Responsibility leads to living enlightenment. Here I am explaining one more very deep, important truth. Please understand, immediately whatever you experience in and around you, whether it makes you powerful or makes you powerless, it all boils down finally to the play of your own different trends and currents. Please understand, you have multiple thought-currents,…

Ability to begin anything in your life from the scratch again and again is Tapas.  Ability to retain the beginners’ mind is tapas. Retain the beginners’ mind you will never be afraid of anything in your life. Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching, is born from Tapas – beginner’s mind. It should protect tapas – beginner’s mind. If you have to rewrite your future you should retain the excitement of beginner’s mind, the enthusiasm of initial excitement.

 If your words are not making you powerful, know two things – they are making somebody else powerful and making you powerless.  If your thinking is not making you powerful, it is making you powerless and making somebody else powerful.  If your feeling is not making you powerful, it is making somebody else powerful and it is making you powerless.  If your living is not making you powerful, it is making you powerless and making somebody else powerful. 

When there is devotion, eyes will have a smile :)

Let me define “Bhakti”:  “People who experience Completion out of the emotion which happens due to the higher consciousness pastimes”.  Please understand, your pastime always leads you to incompletion. An incarnation’s pastimes always leads you to Completion! If you constantly remember what you did when you were a child, you will be in more and more incompletion. If…

When you dream, Life does not make fun of you

Life yearns for you to become reality. When you dream, life dreams through you. The moment you start dreaming, life starts building its dreams about you. Dreams of life for you are hundred times more stronger and powerful than anything you can dream for yourself. The dreams Life can dream for you is thousand times more powerful than the dreams you can create for yourself. But when you start dreaming for yourself, Life’s dream for you starts opening itself through you. You might have tried and started dreaming to become an MLA (Member of Legislative Assembly), but Life will dream…

Mere thinking is never going to get you that result. Only creating a space is going to get you the result. Creating the space means taking the responsibility along with thinking.

When you bring Integrity in your thinking, Authenticity in your actions, Responsibility in your being and Enriching in your life, your frozen inside melts down, starts becoming one with life. Becoming part of the life is what I call “Enlightenment”.

Anything you write in your inner space from inside will become reality

Cognition – the process where we receive information through our 5 senses, process them based on our root patterns and respond to them based on our root patterns.  Authenticity – being sincere to the 4 aspects of you – your mamakara (your image about yourself), your ahamkara (the way you present yourself to others), swa-annyakara (how you perceive life and other people), annyakara (how others see you). In all these 4 being sincere, meaning having best inner image, having best outer image, having the best idea about life and others and being very sincere about what others hold you for.  Spend a…

Integrity should be practiced to be in completion with time. Authenticity should be practiced to experience our Cosmic soul. Responsibility should be practiced because we are powerful. Enriching should be practiced because everybody is part of us, nobody is separate from us.

Any one who owns and not possesses is Sanyasi, is Jeevan Mukthi. Own the building you are staying, don’t possess. Own the knowledge you are having, don’t possess. Own the lifestyle you are living, don’t possess. Own everything you have. Let the world own, make the world own.

Real ownership is constant actions performed in perfection in continuum

Ownership is formed without any bone structure by continuous action! Your actions are like flowers. Ownership is like thread. If the ownership thread is used and actions are tied, it is ego, garland of ego. Never the real ownership happens in that way. Real ownership is flowers are arranged so thoroughly in such packed way, it looks like garland but without thread – that is ownership. There is no separate thread other than continuously actions being performed so meticulously, so continuously that it looks like a garland. But they don’t have a thread, ie. the ego. In a normal man,…